tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post6894845955287761376..comments2023-10-09T09:25:26.873-05:00Comments on f. pea: i want to say something, butf. peahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01155602459175649458noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-33452568840912654592012-06-24T21:37:20.064-05:002012-06-24T21:37:20.064-05:00Love your graphic. If you don't mind I'd ...Love your graphic. If you don't mind I'd like to share it with a friend who lost her daughter last year. Grief is an uphill struggle.Martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12869205085727011059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-64395557054088392502012-06-21T22:11:41.160-05:002012-06-21T22:11:41.160-05:00My heart is with you.My heart is with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-29659800667564613672012-06-14T22:34:29.422-05:002012-06-14T22:34:29.422-05:00Just came to your blog again after a bit and could...Just came to your blog again after a bit and couldn't help it, but this post really resonated with me. Today is my fathers birthday whom also died of cancer (i can't believe it but) 4 years ago. Figured out just now, why I was emotional all day today. That grief never gets smaller but just changes. <br /><br />Cancer is so horrible to watch, I wouldn't wish it upon anyone ever! I hope you remember the good times more, and as much as everything should seem important, a life is so much more and honoring it in the simplest of ways means so much in a world so out of touch with suffering & death...<br /><br />I hope you find the healing you need.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-6595904720253113172012-05-22T15:44:57.597-05:002012-05-22T15:44:57.597-05:00So sorry for your loss.So sorry for your loss.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00505022474390040607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-88636544642542725612012-05-22T14:20:57.293-05:002012-05-22T14:20:57.293-05:00A 'mom' hug to you. I've know loss, a...A 'mom' hug to you. I've know loss, and wish you weren't going through these oh-so-unbearable times. Knitting was my 'everyday' through many treatments, then hospice days with my sweet daughter. We will miss them forever...but others share our pain.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05146514630987436148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-14631844117767681972012-05-18T20:21:15.729-05:002012-05-18T20:21:15.729-05:00I am so sorry to read about the loss of your Dad. ...I am so sorry to read about the loss of your Dad. I lost my Mom to cancer 11 years ago and while the hurt gets a little easier, it never completely goes away. You will remember him in your heart forever and you will always have your memories. Take the opportunity to memorialize thoughts about him in your blog at special times (Father's Day, his birthday, etc) so that when you get a little older and your memory fades, your thoughts will be memorialized in your blog.Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03360333733633267089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-87894655813511412242012-05-16T13:36:01.701-05:002012-05-16T13:36:01.701-05:00I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You seem to...I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You seem to be approaching it in a healthy way, so I just want to say good luck and I am sending good thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-49726835556220585232012-05-15T14:22:58.201-05:002012-05-15T14:22:58.201-05:00I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. ...I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I lost my sister to cancer and a good friend, too. Its not easy, I know. In time you will think more on the life of the man rather than his death, I promise. Glad to see you back blogging, too...that helps! :)smr61754https://www.blogger.com/profile/01738236269597559703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-80494525969567695362012-05-15T13:25:41.838-05:002012-05-15T13:25:41.838-05:00f.pea, My dad also died of cancer 20 years ago , I...f.pea, My dad also died of cancer 20 years ago , I was just thinking of him this morning, that diagram is so so right. Keep blogging and grieving, your blog brightens up my life and many others too I'm sure. xxLaurahttp://www.laura-long.co.uk/aboutnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-89207091745470028322012-05-14T09:53:41.213-05:002012-05-14T09:53:41.213-05:00Christmas of 1989 my mother died unexpectedly and ...Christmas of 1989 my mother died unexpectedly and exactly one month later my mother-in-law died. I am so sorry about the loss of your dad and the only other thing I can say to you is:<br />Time. Like everything else, it takes time.Judi A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09618310997994024137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-90980504482990049642012-05-12T23:52:44.412-05:002012-05-12T23:52:44.412-05:00I am so sorry. That graphic is really so true, tho...I am so sorry. That graphic is really so true, though.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14852928197032856063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-79056248984317546442012-05-09T07:28:45.540-05:002012-05-09T07:28:45.540-05:00So very sorry for your loss.So very sorry for your loss.Maureenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10648753041771616620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-62962415299054971532012-05-08T15:05:19.179-05:002012-05-08T15:05:19.179-05:00I am so so so sorry. I honestly don't even kno...I am so so so sorry. I honestly don't even know what else to say except be patient with yourself. No rush needed even though I'm sure you're in a hurry to feel differently. *hugs*Mutant Supermodelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01111077191524615054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-81976354940010903072012-05-08T02:15:18.384-05:002012-05-08T02:15:18.384-05:00I'm so sorry for your loss... I just lost my m...I'm so sorry for your loss... I just lost my mom in november while I was8 1/2 months pregnant then lost my grandmother 3 weeks ago. I'm still trying to figure out this new reality but the overused inadequate words "things will get easier" become a little more believable every day . Things will get easier... Hang in there<br /><br />KellyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-71518419627282730782012-05-07T19:48:22.958-05:002012-05-07T19:48:22.958-05:00I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. ...I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. Yes, I think that graphic is exactly right. I hope you can be gentle with yourself - grief is such incredibly hard work.g love and her special saucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10265714230448450521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-34128949116519673742012-05-07T17:26:22.555-05:002012-05-07T17:26:22.555-05:00So sorry for your loss. I think your friend's...So sorry for your loss. I think your friend's graphic has it right - it never really goes away, we just seem to learn how to live around it. Wishing the memories of all the good times will sustain you.Joan Mnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-64098490469580816702012-05-07T12:23:43.759-05:002012-05-07T12:23:43.759-05:00Thank you everyone for all the love and virtual hu...Thank you everyone for all the love and virtual hugs. I want to give you all a hug right back.f. peahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01155602459175649458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-56725237488327774452012-05-07T12:23:10.385-05:002012-05-07T12:23:10.385-05:00Aw, how sweet!Aw, how sweet!f. peahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01155602459175649458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-43510279808326387562012-05-07T07:43:09.031-05:002012-05-07T07:43:09.031-05:00makes me cry
reading this...
i have feared
going t...makes me cry<br />reading this...<br />i have feared<br />going through<br />this type of loss<br />for a long time<br />as my parents get older...<br />but cancer <br />is far far worse.<br />that illustration<br />was illuminating-<br />i never thought about<br />it that way before.<br />i think about <br />you <br />every day.<br />i hope ever day<br />is a little easier.<br />xoxoxxo<br />g.bughearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01155984346674609786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-35237996472583415362012-05-06T16:32:15.385-05:002012-05-06T16:32:15.385-05:00I'm so sorry. I've lost my parents and two...I'm so sorry. I've lost my parents and two wonderful step-parents and my dear grandparents. I miss them all. Your friend is a wise person. Take care of yourself.Dorothyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14838513787780887676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-46936762036364360322012-05-06T06:24:19.708-05:002012-05-06T06:24:19.708-05:00I am so sorry to hear about your loss.I am so sorry to hear about your loss.Ingridhttp://www.travellersyarn.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-17065360581785079992012-05-06T02:27:30.584-05:002012-05-06T02:27:30.584-05:00My mom passed away 3 years ago, when I was 9 month...My mom passed away 3 years ago, when I was 9 months pregnant. I lost her to cancer, and I know exactly what you are going .... It takes time, a lot of time. And it is hard. Dont push yourself to recover fast. Sorry about your loss.<br />Patricia FontesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-63348976087667791712012-05-06T01:27:31.624-05:002012-05-06T01:27:31.624-05:00My children were born after my dad died, but he is...My children were born after my dad died, but he is still very much a part of our lives. His paintings, his experiences, his stories - they remain a part of our lives. I'm so sorry for your loss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-4795487274805596652012-05-05T21:27:29.247-05:002012-05-05T21:27:29.247-05:00I understand how you feel in a different way. I ha...I understand how you feel in a different way. I have a beautiful child..she is now twenty one...Out there in the world...Using drugs...Doing god knows what. I have almost lost her a few times...The fear and the pain I experience almost daily is so unbearable I dont know how I get up and get dressed somedays...I am sorry for your loss I can only imagine. I get so caught up in my agony of my life I take my poor dad for granted...Life is not fair sometimes and not what you expect it will be.. Hugs.deebriesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01294693680092299614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18444369.post-27868098363955157782012-05-05T20:37:09.630-05:002012-05-05T20:37:09.630-05:00I lost my Dad some time ago, but I won't claim...I lost my Dad some time ago, but I won't claim to know how you feel. We are all different. I don't really know you, but I still wish I could give you a hug.<br /><br />If it helps at all, I thought of you today. <a href="https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.862545610015.2188375.49400742&type=1&l=219c27c54c" rel="nofollow">I went to the Maryland Sheep & Wool Festival</a> with my niece. She was wearing <a href="http://ravel.me/oylenshpeegul/f1" rel="nofollow">the socks that I made her from your pattern</a>.oylenshpeegulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08957521303556290217noreply@blogger.com